Marriages culminating in divorces can wreck havoc on the lives of the separating couples. And wherever kids are involved, the experience of having to watch their parents cross swords with each other over property division, child custody and support, and alimony, and other related issues can be traumatic.
Going through the separation process can be quite clumsy in itself and on top of that if you get involved in litigation, things can messier without the proper help of an attorney.
Mediation lets you regulate the outcome
By choosing mediation over litigation, you and your partner are able to keep the reins in your hand as far as the ultimate outcome is concerned. And since you have been living with your spouse under one roof for quite some time now, surely your relationship has not yet reached a nadir that you cannot work out an arrangement that’d be suitable to both.
Divorce Lawyers could guide you on how to reach an agreement through mediation.
Statistics overwhelmingly show that divorcing couples, when they sit down together to thrash out relevant issues like asset and property division, child custody and support, sharing of debt and liabilities, alimony and shared parenting, the outcome suits both. Involving a third party mediator can help expedite the procedure.
Indulging in several casual physical relations before marriage can also lead to infidelity. When you are used to multiple partners, it is difficult to stay committed and not stray. Personality disorder is another reason for infidelity where the unfaithful spouse seeks adventure or danger. Being adulterous and not getting caught is the biggest thrill of his/her life. S/he has little respect for the established norms of marriage and family life.